Breaking the Generational Curse of Poverty
This is why
I do it.
Generation after generation is steeped in poverty and hopelessness. Studies have
shown that if a family stays in poverty for four generations, future
generations are likely to remain poor.
As far back as I can remember our family has
remained in the proverbial “poor” class. My grandfather was a “laborer”,
meaning he worked in the fields on somebody else’s farm. ”. My grandmother died
in a field while working as a “laborer.” My father was a logger(or pulp wood
man) and my mom was termed a “laborer” as well. She probably worked the same
fields as my grandfather and grandmother before her. At the age of 12, I was taken to the fields to
work alongside my mother. Business law at the time said a child could work at
the age of 12 without a social security number. All this meant was that the
rich farmer who I worked for could get cheap labor and not have to pay taxes.
On the brighter side, it meant that the family income would increase by
whatever amount the 12-year old managed to acquire. It was back-breaking work
bending and hauling bundles of flowers that were taller than me, and probably
weighed more as well. It was not long before I decided that this would NOT be
my lot in life. I dreamed that someday I would be a Secretary in an office
somewhere, far away from the dust and bugs of the fields of the rural south.
Four years
later, I was a teenage mom who had dropped out of school and I saw my dream
slowly fading away. I returned to school to complete my high school education
and graduated with honors. I was determined not to be a part of the statistics
and demographics of my own little village. Everywhere I looked, teenage girls
were becoming teen moms and bringing their children home to their parents to
add to a family budget that was already sagging under the weight of the burden
of “not enough”. I decided to “break free” and like Kunta Kinte, I ran. I ran
and ran and ran but it seemed that wherever I went, poverty followed me. As a
young wife and mother I struggled to run a household the way I had seen my
mother run hers. Once I had my own household to run, I realized why sometimes
she would not eat but only have a cup of coffee and a cigarette why the rest of
the family consumed the food she had labored to provide. I understood that when
we had fried chicken for dinner, she chose the chicken necks and backs as her
portion. Every day the thought of how to get out of poverty was on my mind, so
I reached for my dream.
I achieved
the rank of Secretary after high school and worked in a very nice office.
Looking back on my life then, I was still a “laborer”. It was only the location
that had changed. The money that I brought home was never a’more than enough”
and more than enough is what it will take to break the curse of poverty. So in
the spirit of Kunta Kinte, I ran again. I ran as far away from my childhood
experiences as I could. I joined the Air Force and took my first plane ride to
Basic Training. In doing just that one thing, I had already exceeded the
limitations of my ancestors and my siblings.
However,
when your life is held in check by a generational curse that is passed on from
generation to generation, no amount of running will help. It then became my
mission to discover how to break the generational curse of poverty.
Statistically
speaking, we are not in keeping with the plans of God:
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This is not the future that God has planned for my generations of grandchildren. God wants his people to prosper. In fact, his word declares that he already has plans for us to prosper. There is a way out of Poverty and like Sojourner Truth and Harriet Tubman before me, I am bound to find it and once the path is clear, to return to the masses and lead captives to the Promised Land. I'm on the move again with a new business venture that promises to be "the way". Fear not. I'll be back for you.
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